{"id":1399,"date":"2011-11-02T18:03:04","date_gmt":"2011-11-02T22:03:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/?p=1399"},"modified":"2011-11-02T19:44:07","modified_gmt":"2011-11-02T23:44:07","slug":"remembering-bette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/2011\/11\/trucker-talk\/remembering-bette\/","title":{"rendered":"Remembering Bette"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1400\" title=\"NovTT1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT1-300x164.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"164\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT1-300x164.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT1-600x329.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT1.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>It has been three years since my friend Bette Garber passed away. I can\u2019t believe how fast time flies. For those of you who knew Bette, you are lucky! For those of you that did not, she was a trucking photojournalist extraordinaire. And she not only talked the talked, but she also walked the walk, and did whatever it took (she even got her CDL) to get the story and pictures of the trucks (and truckers) that she loved so much. I am determined to keep her memory and her work alive.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, I was able to acquire Bette\u2019s entire photo collection of 30 years, and in that vast collection I found some unbelievable stuff, including pictures of Bette early in her photo career. The love of Bette\u2019s life was not a man \u2013 her true love was her camera and her little notebooks. She loaded her cameras with slide film and shot every aspect of trucking life in America. In all those little notebooks, Bette would scribble, part shorthand and part words, the notes she would use for the colorful stories she would later write about the drivers, the trucks, and the important issues facing the industry at that time.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT2.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1401\" title=\"NovTT2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT2-300x230.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"230\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT2-300x230.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT2-600x461.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT2.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>One story that Bette wrote, about sleep apnea, was very personal. When Bette\u2019s sister Myra (Mikie Friedman) was diagnosed with sleep apnea, Bette said, \u201cI don\u2019t have that.\u201d But later, down the road, she learned that indeed she did have it. She also learned that a lot of over-the-road truckers did, as well, which endangered their lives and the lives of the people with whom they shared the road. When she wrote that story about sleep apnea, it was the first story I had ever seen published about this medical condition. I remember her telling me, \u201cThis is going to be a really big deal one day.\u201d How true that turned out to be &#8211; it is a very big deal now! This story, like so many others Bette wrote, was ahead of its time.<\/p>\n<p>Bette\u2019s friend Dierdre Atkinson Wogaman (goes by \u201cD\u201d or Chickadee on the CB) told me that Bette was \u201calways one step ahead of the curve.\u201d Back in 1979, Bette told her she was going to Georgia to cover one of the first American truck races ever held at the Atlanta Motor Speedway. D was anxious to see the beginnings of a great new thing and volunteered to go with her as her assistant. What an adventure this trip turned out to be!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT3.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1402\" title=\"NovTT3\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT3-300x205.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"205\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT3-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT3-600x411.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT3.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>After getting their Press passes, Bette and D went schlepping (as Bette used to say) onto the infield with all her equipment. They began interviewing drivers and shooting all the trucks. The other journalists poo-pooed the old man driving the old red GMC \u201cJunkyard Dog\u201d truck, but not Bette. To Bette, everyone had their story and no one was too small or insignificant to at least talk to \u2013 I loved that about her. As it turned out, that old man in the GMC was the winner of the race (not the cocky guy in the bright red-orange Kenworth that blew a steer tire and slammed into the wall). If that sounds familiar to you, yes, I\u2019m talking about the opening scene for Smokey and the Bandit II. As it turned out, they were filming that race scene for the movie during this real race and much of the footage was real (including when that KW smacked the wall). It was hot as Hades for the race, so Bette put a bag of ice cubes under her straw cowboy hat to keep cool.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1403\" title=\"NovTT4\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT4-300x210.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT4-300x210.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT4-600x420.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT4.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Being in the right place at the right time, they were on the infield when Jerry Reed rolled up in a big shiny new GMC General. While he sat there waiting for directions from director Hal Needham, people (fans) started climbing up on the running boards and Bette was clicking away. When the movie came out, Bette and D went to see it together and Bette was in a brief scene. The sequence that Bette was in was Jerry Reed \u201cwinning\u201d the race (in reality, Jerry drove the start lap with all the rest of the race trucks behind him). No one else would have known that it was Bette in the movie because her face was covered with her camera as she shot pictures \u2013 but the two of them knew. Can you imagine what it would have been like to really be there? There was a lot of hoopla for that movie back then.<\/p>\n<p>Bette\u2019s nieces, Jenny and Stacy Friedman, told me that when they were with her at different events it felt like she was a \u201crock star\u201d in the trucking community. Everyone either knew Bette or wanted to know her, and they all wanted her to shoot their truck. Jenny and Stacy were both with her at the last show she attended, in Kasson, MN, and they cherish the memories of the time they got to share with their beloved aunt, watching her do what she loved doing so much. Who knew these would be her last few pictures.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1404\" title=\"NovTT5\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT5-300x202.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT5-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT5-600x405.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT5.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Bette\u2019s assistant, Nikki Owens, began working for Bette in 1998. Nikki said, \u201cComing to work each day was a mystery. You really didn\u2019t know what that day would bring or what to expect.\u201d Nikki worked in Bette\u2019s office at her home \u2013 an office that, to the untrained eye, looked in total disarray, but it was really a well-organized space. The only thing Bette always seemed to have a hard time finding was her car keys \u2013 this huge ring of keys often eluded her. I remember Bette telling me how much she loved her short \u201ccommute\u201d to work every day \u2013 out of the kitchen, through the breezeway, and into the office!<\/p>\n<p>Bette started shooting her pictures decades before Photoshop even existed. Today, people can improve their photos after the fact by cropping them and recomposing them on a computer, but not Bette. Bette shot on slide film, which meant she had to compose each shot in the camera as she took it. She had an eye for this, and part of her genius was being able to see how a truck would look best \u2013 as a small part of a greater scene, or filling the entire frame nose to tail. She also knew when to shoot just a single key detail \u2013 a blurred tail light, a glint of chrome or a driver\u2019s intense expression \u2013 to evoke a certain feeling. That was her art.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1405\" title=\"NovTT6\" src=\"http:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT6-300x203.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT6-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT6-600x407.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/NovTT6.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>I don\u2019t think anyone could have summed it up better than Nikki. Bette truly loved what she did and she loved every trucker\u2019s life and family she had the privilege to write about. The pleasure she received by writing these stories was incredible and captivating to watch. Bette always wrote with facts, confidence and conviction, and would never compromise her integrity or trust. Other than Bette\u2019s passion for what she did, what always amazed me was how honored she was when these truckers would allow her to write about them. They thought the world of Bette, and loved her genuine interest in them, their trucks and their jobs. She made them feel famous and on top of the world, and for that, they were forever grateful to her.<\/p>\n<p>But Bette, in her passionate but humble way, always saw each and every one of these truckers she shot as a hero. Bette was the one who was honored and blessed. And blessed she was \u2013 with a successful career that she truly loved, that enabled her to touch so many people so deeply. Bette is missed by many, and admired by many many more \u2013 myself included, for sure. On these pages is just a tiny sampling of some of the neat old photos I recently found in Bette\u2019s collection. Enjoy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It has been three years since my friend Bette Garber passed away. I can\u2019t believe how fast time flies. For those of you who knew Bette, you are lucky! For those of you that did not, she was a trucking photojournalist extraordinaire. And she not only talked the talked, but she also walked the walk,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1400,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1399","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-trucker-talk"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1399"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1399\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1495,"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1399\/revisions\/1495"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.tenfourmagazine.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}